I have found, so far, that the reaction is usually a mix of feeling a little intimidated and a little excited. The mind starts racing with project ideas and I can see it in their eyes, they have that crafting moment we all love when you just want to get started RIGHT NOW! Even if all you want to get started on is the shopping part. My deadline is always the same...whenever, it doesn't matter. I have a few of these little barters out there. And, recently one came home to roost. This wonderful handmade bag from my wonderful mama friend in Portland. She got it from Handmade Home and while she says she finds sewing daunting, it is impeccable.
It has been used to tote groceries--real ones and my son's imaginary ones, bring books back from the library, and shlep bottles to daycare and back. It's a useful new friend. And, look at how lovely it drapes. Bring it on barter!
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what a wonderful post. (and a really cute bag, too!) I hadn't really thought of this idea of "bartering" handmade, and I love it. Just curious--do you ever find it challenging to offer to make something for someone, because you don't want to sound like you are showing off? I mean, I know I am fabulous and all that (haha), but that's not why I would offer to make something for a friend. Still, it can sometimes, with some people, seem like I am unintentionally threatening their own validity as moms/women just because crafting isn't their thing.
and, duh, I just realized that your solution really lets people off of that guilty/inadequate hook, because it allows them to return the favor in whatever way, and whatever time, they find best. I guess I could even validate aforementioned "types" by making my request first, then slipping in the offer to make something I know they want/need in return. You're a clever one, Melissa! (and sorry for dominating your comments today, didn't plan to be so wordy!)
Fun post and idea, have 'participated' more in the gift exchange version but perhaps a direct- 'hey lets do a swap'. could be fun- maybe after christmas you want to do one? xx Jupe
Mama-pan, I don't find it a challenge when it comes to barter because I only do it when I'm asked for something. But, I hear what you are saying. It gets tricky, especially in the moms group. Sometimes I don't even want to make something for someone as a gift for fear of the "You made this didn't you?" comment. Even though it is said with love.
Juniper, a barter swap would be great. Post-holidays for sure. Anyone else in? Mary Frances, you know you want to.
oh, you're right, I'd be a sucker for a swap like that. For January-ish? Let me know the theme and details!
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